Your mother-daughter relationship

should feel like home.

REMEMBER THE FIRST TIME YOU HELD YOUR DAUGHTER?

Like me, you probably looked down at her face and imagined all the future moments you would share together. Matching mother-daughter outfits, tea parties, dance parties in the living room.

You dreamt of teaching her all that you didn’t know as a girl and raise her differently than your mother. You would be the one to get this right.

Then she developed her own little personality and it became harder to connect. Life happened; a divorce, loss or big move and you navigated the best you could but quickly learned it wasn’t enough for your daughter.

When daughters do not feel heard, understood and accepted, they do not feel loved. We all want our daughters to feel loved and they deserve it, too!

Our breakdown comes from what mothers don’t know about how to help their daughter feel seen and heard. Whether we’re 8 or 80 we all want the same = to feel loved.

That is what we do here. Heal hearts. Secure bonds. Celebrate love.

What happens when mothers and daughters have open and honest conversations?

Here’s what happened for past clients: 

  • They gained skills to communicate clearly and effectively when there is difference of opinion or strong emotions present.

  • Mothers release the blame they have felt for years and are finally held with empathy for all they’ve done.

  • They stay engaged in honest and open communication to stop reading between the lines or walking on eggshells.

  • Mothers learn a new way of reaching their daughters that now feels natural and keeps her daughter coming back to her over and over.

  • Daughters feel loved through all the ups and downs because they feel their mother’s unwavering support and acceptance.

  • Daughters feel free to follow their hearts because they know they are trusted by their mother and no longer have to prove they are “enough”.

  • They feel loved and honored by each other everyday.

Mother-Daughter Ease Experience

 

A community of women are linking arms for this three day experience where we dive into the adult daughter’s perspective, the mother’s perspective and how as women we can create a revolution that changes the game for what we expect and accept in our relationship.

The details:

*This experience is happening live on January 28, 29 and 30, 2025 at 12pm EST.

*No worries if you can't make it live every day, you'll have access to the recordings until February 10th!

*It's pay-what-you-want right now plus two weeks access to the recording then it’s going to be priced at $100 after the live experience.

*This is created for mothers or adult daughters to learn about the other perspective and gain insight into their own relationship dynamics. You DO NOT have to attend with your mother or daughter.

This is especially for…

*Women; mothers and adult daughters. Not mother-daughter couples, but individual women from all walks of life joining together to learn from each other.

*You feel at a loss of how to decrease the emotional distance in your relationship, feel understood and/or how to get out of the loop of conflict and silence you’ve been in for far too long.

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I’m Hilary, lover and advocate of the sacred mother-daughter bond

Let’s face it, the mother-daughter relationship is often misunderstood. I’ve heard it both described too many times as ‘special yet complicated’. After working as a therapist for teen girls for fifteen years, I saw girl after girl come into my office and feel alone in the world. Even with her well intentioned mother sitting right outside on the waiting room couch. This was the moment I knew we needed to stop accepting disconnection between mothers and daughters.

Since then, I’ve had the honor of working with hundreds of mothers and daughters to help them have the best relationship possible. As a former therapist, I transfer my skills to mothers so they are the ones rescuing their girls. I show mothers and adult daughters how to listen to each other’s needs and truly understand each other so they can heal and have the relationship they’ve been craving.

Your intent listener, assuring confidante and knowing guide, I’m ready to give you not only what you need but what you want. We begin with the education, healing and work then we celebrate.

Begin Your Journey

HILARY’S SIGNATURE SERVICES

Ready to repair your relationship? Had enough with the pressure, distance and rejection? Let’s get you back in conversation and relationship with each other. It’s where you both deserve and want to be with each other. How do I know that? Because daughters always want to be loved and accepted by their mother. I approach each relationship uniquely to find the right support for you to heal your hearts. Coaching is perfect for mothers and daughters of all ages and in all stages of their relationship.

You may feel like this is just a phase you’re daughter’s growing through; separating, rejecting your efforts as she finds her way in the world…but here’s the truth: your daughter needs you, no matter her age. But if you're feeling unsure how to help her when she’s struggling, how to guide her in a way that feels supportive and say the ‘right’ things that don’t cause her to shut off from you, it’s time to learn a new approach. In my program, Hold On to Your Daughter, you’ll learn how to be the calm & confident mother your daughter needs.

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