Speaking & Media

Hilary Mae is an expert on the mother daughter relationship, former therapist and professional speaker who is on a mission to redefine what we expect and accept from our mother-daughter relationship.

MOTHER-DAUGHTER GROUPS

ALL GIRL SCHOOLS

ORGANIZATIONS FOR WOMEN

WOMEN & WEALTH GROUPS

THERAPISTS TREATING WOMEN AND GIRLS

Hilary's Perfect Audience

Hilary's Expert Speaking Topics

CHANGING THE MOTHER-DAUGHTER NARRATIVE

UNSTOPPABLE DUOS: MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS

WHAT’S POSSIBLE FOR MOTHERS AND DAUGHTERS?

PROTECTING YOUR MOTHER-DAUGHTER BOND

THE IMPACT

  • “Our mother and daughter philanthropy group was fortunate enough to connect with Hilary via Zoom. Hilary engages with her audience and went beyond our expectations with her calm demeanor, eloquent speaking and practical ready to use suggestions. Her topic is so relevant and to quote the woman sitting next to me, "I could listen to her all day!"

    National Charity League Board Member

  • "Wow. I have a page full of notes. I will be waiting for you to write a book."

    AAFMT Conference Attendee

  • “A thousand 'thank you's' are not enough - the feedback was incredible!”

    National Charity League Event Coordinator

  • "Loved this, might be my favorite presentation at the conference. Thank you!!"

    American Association for Marriage and Family Therapists Conference Attendee

Inspiration Around Every Corner

It’s time to look at your mother-daughter relationship through a brand new lens. Together we will build understanding, empathy and connection. My goal is to ensure that you walk away feeling uplifted and inspired to apply the tools I share during our time together.

  • Understanding

    When mothers understand exactly what their daughters crave in their relationship, they can show up as the confident, assuring adult their daughter needs.

  • Empathy

    When mothers and daughters understand they want the same things from each other, they are invited to see each other with softer eyes and hearts.

  • Connection

    When mothers and daughters stay in conversation they stay in relationship. Daughters turn to their mothers in times of need and mothers know how to support them through anything.

Past Events

  • National Charity League Cherry Blossom

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Protecting Your Mother-Daughter Bond

  • Eldest Daughters Club

    Event: Private Event

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Navigating Family Dynamics: Holiday Edition

  • National Charity League Rocky Mountain Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Duos: Mothers & Teen Daughters

  • National Charity League Three Rivers Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Duos: Mothers & Teen Daughters

  • National Charity League Sonoran Centennial Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Duos: Mothers & Teen Daughters

  • National Charity League Scottsdale Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Duos: Mothers & Teen Daughters

  • National Charity League Garden City Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Location: Garden City, NY

    Topic: Understanding Your Mother-Daughter Bond

  • Association for Prenatal & Perinatal Psychology & Health

    Event: Association Education

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Building a Healthy Mother-Daughter Relationship from Birth

  • Meetup Live

    Event: Fireside Chat

    Type: Keynote

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: A Mother’s Day Relationship Discussion

  • National Charity League Beachside Chapter

    Event: Chapter Meeting

    Type: Keynote

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: What’s Possible for Mothers & Teen Daughters?

  • West Chester Friends School

    Event: Mother-Daughter Tea

    Type: Keynote

    Location: West Chester, PA

  • National Charity League Livingston Chapter

    Event: Annual Mother-Daughter Tea

    Type: Keynote

    Location: Pleasanton, California

    Topic: Unstoppable Mother-Daughter Duos

  • National Charity League Lake Norman Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Mother-Daughter Duos

  • National Charity League Davis, CA Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Unstoppable Mothers and Daughters

  • American Association for Marriage and Family Therapists

    Location: Virtual

    Event: Systemic Family Therapy Conference

    Topic: Rewriting the Mother-Teen Daughter Story

  • National Charity League Greenville, SC

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League Palos Verdes, CA Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League Port City Chapter

    Location: Alexandria, Virginia

    Event: Kick-off Event

    Type: Keynote

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League Valley Forge Chapter

    Location: Phoenixville, Pennsylvania

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League Round Rock, Texas Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League Grand Lilies, Texas Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • National Charity League North NJ Chapter

    Location: Livingston, New Jersey

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • The Fund for Women and Girls - Girl Gov

    Location: West Chester, Pennsylvania

    Topic: Generational Sexism and the Mother-Daughter Relationship

  • National Charity League Surf Cities, CA Chapter

    Location: Virtual

    Topic: Mothers and Teen Daughters: Unstoppable Duos

  • Women's Federation for World Peace

    Location: Virtual

    Type: Conference

    Topic: Understanding the Mother-Daughter Relationship

  • My Girlfriend’s House

    Event: Mother-Daughter Weekend Retreat

    Type: Keynote Speaker, Workshop Leader

    Location: Poconos, Pennsylvania

    Topic: Building Your Strong Mother-Daughter Relationship

FEATURED PRESS/MEDIA

To book Hilary for your event

  • Hilary was an amazing presenter for my organization. Her passion for the mother-daughter bond brought so much healing and conversation around this topic. Her presentation style made everyone feel listened to and personally supported. Hilary delves into the topic of mother-daughter bonds and creates realistic opportunities to bring healing to your own relationship. Hilary has a calm and knowledgable demeanor when she’s presenting.

    Wendy Bruns, APPPAH Communications Director

  • "Hilary, your presentation couldn't have come at any better time than this. I was in tears when I listened to you and I can 100% relate to everything you said. I would love to have more sessions like this from you."

    Unstoppable Duos Workshop Attendee

  • "I thought Hilary was great. Her message was on point and she has such a calming voice. My daughter and I enjoyed listening to her. Her message definitely resonated with both of us!"

    National Charity League, Board Member

  • "We all thought your presentation was amazing! Thank you so much for coming all the way to Livingston to share your expertise with us."

    Unstoppable Duos Workshop Attendee

  • "Thank you so much for presenting to us today. I can honestly say that since joining NCL this has been the most helpful and insightful presentation."

FEATURED PODCASTS

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