Your daughter needs you and I know you need her
It’s time to be the person she confides in.
The one who makes her feel heard and seen.
The one she calls to share the big news.
Learn what your daughter needs from you at this stage of life and watch her soften, let you back in as you take the steps to invite her into your next level relationship.
LET’S BRING HER BACK
There’s been a rupture that feels too big to put back together on your own.
You’re feeling her slip away, time and distance building every day.
Some days you think you might just let it go…but your heart hurts at the thought of letting your little girl go.
You know you need a new approach if you’re going to save your relationship but are feeling stuck with how.
You don’t have to be left with this huge pain in your heart and I know your daughter doesn’t want that either.
What she wants is change and I’m going to help you give it to her. Between lessons, guidance and the support of our amazing community of mothers - WE will get you there.
HERE WE’RE HOLDING ON TO OUR DAUGHTERS
Here’s what happens when our daughters feel heard and understood by us:
They feel important and loved which prevents them from disappearing or disconnecting from themselves.
Feeling grounded in their relationship with their mother improves confidence and resilience because they know they have her unwavering support.
Knowing they are understood and accepted for exactly who they are encourages them to continue sharing their lives, answering the phone and desiring to spend time together well into their adult years.
They feel free to be themselves identify the pressure to fit in for just what it is - pressure that she can take or leave.
When daughters are actively having more honest and open communication with their mothers, they know their worth and stop seeking outside feedback to remind them of their worthiness.
You can have the best intentions…
But if your daughter isn’t happy with you
If she’s not opening up to you about her day or calling you back
you don't have the relationship you both deserve.
I know this weighs heavily on you, all you ever wanted was to love and feel loved by your daughter.
The reason some mothers have this is because they've worked hard to listen, understand and respect their daughter's opinions.
If you are ready to be your daughter’s safe haven, the person she calls when she needs to talk something out or share exciting news, learn how to respond in a way that makes her feel loved and understood.
Here you will learn how to hear what your daughter needs from you, how to make her feel loved and understood while protecting your relationship for years to come.
Along with a core focus on growing your relationship, we work together to lay the
foundations necessary to understand what has happened to get you off course,
how to bring you back to together and keep you there.
OUR CIRCLE INCLUDES
An intimate group of mothers with daughters ages 13+.
Bi-weekly Zoom sessions that happen Live on Fridays at 12pm EST. All sessions are recorded, you can submit questions ahead and session topics are chosen based on conversation in our group chat (ie. what everyone needs to work on at that moment).
Your daily group chat to connect with myself and other members for guidance and feedback as you implement the skills you're learning and for help navigating anything pops up with your daughter in between calls.
Access to my signature course Hold On to Your Daughter to support your learning. Upon joining, I will point you to the best place to begin your learning and support your progress.
Through education, sessions and your understanding circle of mothers, you will be encouraged to take action in your relationship immediately and consistently.
Here you will not slip through the cracks. This is a highly supportive circle of women at different points in their journeys with their daughters, connecting in our group chat daily.
First Week Wins!
"There is such support and commonality, I feel like I can relate to each of you already and we just met.”
“Thank you for the work you do in the world, I love this group already.”
"Already I have learned so much from you how I might be more mindful in integrating a positive moment in interactions. ❤️❤️
"I love how technology has allowed us to all connect and support each other from so many different parts of the world. 😊”
"One little nugget of goodness is that when I sent (my daughter) a text this week to let he know I am thinking about her, light news and always an ‘I love you’. She texted a reply and in that reply she thanked me for my message and ended it with an ‘I love you’.”
“I talked to my daughter for almost an hour this week, I held back some of my questions and I was able to not get defensive. She seemed really content with how it went.”
Fourth Week Wins!
“ I KNOW we can learn the skills to better use our authentic voice in a way that doesn’t hurt our daughters. We are in this class because we believe it’s never too late to learn and model this for these brilliant young women. They are still watching us!”
“Things have been going nicely with (my daughter) – this week she sent me a pic of the basketball game she went to, asked what to do about a rash on her hands, when I posted a pic of my sushi dinner on Valentine’s Day she replied that she had sushi too that night. So, all really good stuff.
“I sent an email to (my daughter) today using some of my new conversation starter knowledge. I used the starter about “I learned something new…” in the context of my mother-line map. It felt good to write the email—it’s finally getting easier.”
“I’m so thankful I made notes from all the group texts today and our session because it helped me handle it so much better and stay in the listening role with only a couple of questions. I feel hopeful again. Thank you for helping me reground myself.”
Sixth Week Wins!
“It blows my mind how enriching you are to my lives, you have given me so much. In the moments when it’s so natural to go back to our own habits, it’s been great to surround myself with your experiences so I can stay on the path I want to be on.”
“Being a part of this group is probably one of the best things I’ve done for myself. I get a lot out of this, it just takes me time to process everything.”
“This group has been incredible, I almost didn’t join but I’m so glad I did. I feel optimistic for me and for all of you too.”
“I was hesitant to join due to finances. For me learning how not to be violtale and walk away has been so important to me so I don’t break her boundaries. Hearing that I’m not alone and we all have our stuff has been beyond helpful.”
This is an easy decision…you either want the best relationship with your daughter or you don’t.
Don’t look back six months from now and wonder where you would have been if you have learned how to make a change at this very moment.
✓ Community
✓ Education
✓ Coaching
✓ Support
✓ Accountability
✓ Your best relationship